Malaysia for Years...

Its amazing to finally write again after ages, we have been working on our project Chayo for the past few years. Along the way I signed up for facebook, but now I realized that I really miss writing too.
We have a baby now and he is amazing. His name is Paramjap. Its so cool having a person totally dedicate their time to you and you dedicate your time to them too. His giggles, his whines, his cooing and caaing are all really beautiful and he is growing so fast.
Paramjap was born after 12 hours of labor. It was intense, don't let anyone tell you otherwise, but it was not like tantric, which was what a lot of people told me. It was like this unique contained space with an opening time and an IN IT time and an ending time, ending with an amazing person being put on your belly. Paramjap cried so quietly and sweetly when he first came out and I just couldn't believe it when I looked at him.
We were in Espanola and I stayed for the 40 days. That was so nice and peaceful and I loved having Ravi chant to him and my mom bring him to gurdwara every day after his 40 days and my papa talk to him about riding bikes and watching tv with him.
So now I'm back hope to post more often. When I have a free minute...